If you are human, you probably have your own special knee-jerk response that can show up, big or small, depending on
what's going on.
Want to prevent conflict? Don’t do these things.
For some reason it is easier for me to describe what to avoid, rather than how to creatively deal with conflict. Probably because I’m thinking of all the times I made a mess
of things.
Blame.
I’m working on letting go of being incensed at someone who owes me money. Someone who has been stringing me along. For months. The real truth is that I didn’t get enough in writing. And from the beginning something didn’t
feel right. I was naive in my trust. I read somewhere recently the vehemence of our blame is often... [Click here to read the rest
of the article. Learn about how important it is to avoid jumping to conclusions, acting from entitlement, nurturing that chip on your shoulder and getting into someone else's business.]. 
